Dating vs serious relationship
Generally speaking, to get to the point of going on a date, there is some level of attraction there.
However, unless you’re superficial or living in Lala Land, the point of dating is to build on the attraction, get to know the person, and ensure that whatever ideas and assumptions you have are grounded in reality.
When I write dating tips and relationship advice for a new mode, I am writing to a female audience.
– They were too far along in investment and illusions to have their feet in reality enough to be working out whether this person was someone that they actually should be with.The problem with neediness is that instead of inspiring all of those positive relationship qualities, the “needy person” acts as if their partner is denying them those good relationship qualities…like they’re entitled to them and their partner is cruelly withholding it.When I started writing Ask a Guy, I had no idea that it would take off like it has.I am grateful to have such loyal readers who contribute great questions to me.